1. Create Your Contact List
Create a list of past customers, leads, and anyone who’s interacted with you or your business(es).
If you want to get more detailed, segment them based on their last interaction date, product/service of interest, how they initially found you, or how long it’s been since you last connected.
(See the “Tools & Resources” section for a free spreadsheet template.)
2. Choose Your Channels
- Email: Great for quick reintroductions or sharing links/resources.
- SMS: Perfect for short, immediate messages.
- Voicemail Drops: Send a personal-sounding, concise recorded message.
- Social Media: Particularly useful for professional networks on LinkedIn or Facebook.
3. Craft a Personal Message
One way to do this is to reference past interactions.
Examples: “Last time we talked, you said you were dealing with [pain point].” or “When we last connected I remember you were working towards [their goal].”.
Or, do 90 seconds of research and reference something going on in their life right now. Check their LinkedIn, Facebook, or Instagram.
Examples: “Congrats on the new position!” or “I hope you had a great time on your vacation to St. Pete!”.
Say it naturally, in your own voice. Remember these aren’t just “potential leads;” they’re people!
4. Provide Value First
Once you’ve built on the pre-existing relationship, highlight the specific value you can bring to them right now. Send something genuinely helpful—a new guide, a curated resource, or a short video demonstrating a useful tip. There’s no need to ask them for a big sell or anything at this point. Just be a good resource.
5. Encourage a Response or Action
Ask if they’d like more info or to grab a quick call about what you’re working on. Don’t leave them wondering, “Okay. So what?”
If you’re not sure if they’re your ideal customer or not, ask them instead if they know someone who might be interested in what you do. Most people love to make connections for people.
Either way, keep the request simple (one main action).
6. Follow Up (Politely)
If they don’t respond to the first message, reach out again after a few days with a friendly nudge.
Example: “Hey friend! Not sure if you saw my last message. Just wanted to send you this resource and see if you know anyone else who might appreciate it.”